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Stuck On Your Self-Help Journey? Bonus: Free Printable!

Updated: Jun 15

Here’s What Might Be Going Wrong and How to Fix It!


Self-help can be a transformative journey, but it’s not uncommon to feel stuck or frustrated along the way. Here’s a breakdown of three common pitfalls and practical tips to overcome them.



1. Talking/Feeling but Not Taking Action

Why This Is a Problem

Many people spend a lot of time thinking about their goals and discussing them without taking concrete steps to achieve them. While it’s important to have dreams and feel motivated, without action, these dreams remain just that—dreams.


Why It’s Not Working

Talking about your goals without acting on them leads to frustration and stagnation. You might feel like you're making progress, but in reality, you're not moving forward.


What You Can Do About It

Identify Your Goals

  • Set specific, achievable goals: Clearly define what you want to achieve.

  • Write them down: This makes your goals more concrete and real.


Make an Action Plan

  • Break down goals into actionable steps: Outline the steps needed to achieve each goal.

  • Create a timeline: Assign deadlines to each step to stay on track.


Take the First Step

  • Commit to one small action today: Starting with a small step can help overcome the fear of taking action.

  • Build momentum: Small actions lead to bigger accomplishments over time.


2. Taking Action Without Feeling and Reflecting

Why This Is a Problem

Being constantly busy with tasks without taking time to reflect can lead to burnout. Actions taken without understanding your emotional state may not align with your deeper values and desires.


Why It’s Not Working

Action without introspection can feel meaningless and unsustainable. It’s essential to connect with your emotions to ensure your actions are fulfilling and aligned with your values.


What You Can Do About It

Allow Yourself to Feel

  • Schedule time for reflection: Regularly set aside time to think about your feelings and experiences.

  • Practice mindfulness or meditation: These practices can help you stay connected with your emotions.


Connect with Your Emotions

  • Use a feelings wheel: Regularly check in with your emotions to better understand them.

  • Journal about your feelings: Write about your emotional experiences to gain clarity and insight.


Integrate Emotions into Actions

  • Reflect on how your actions align with your feelings: Ensure that what you’re doing feels right emotionally.

  • Adjust as needed: Be willing to change your actions if they don’t align with your values and emotions.


3. Consuming Too Much, Not Applying


Why This Is a Problem

It’s easy to get caught up in consuming self-help content—books, podcasts, articles—without taking the time to apply what you’ve learned. This leads to information overload and confusion.


Why It’s Not Working

Learning without application doesn’t lead to change. Without implementing what you’ve learned, the knowledge remains theoretical and doesn’t contribute to personal growth.


What You Can Do About It

Limit Your Intake

  • Choose one source to focus on at a time: Avoid overwhelming yourself with too much information.

  • Be selective: Prioritize quality over quantity.


Apply What You Learn

  • Implement one key takeaway each week: Focus on applying one piece of advice at a time.

  • Reflect on the results: Regularly assess how applying the new information impacts your life.

Reflect and Adjust

  • Set aside time for reflection: Regularly evaluate your progress and make necessary adjustments.

  • Use a progress tracker: Monitor your progress and stay accountable.


By addressing these common pitfalls, you can overcome the barriers in your self-help journey and start making meaningful progress towards your goals. Remember, self-improvement is a continuous process that involves both action and reflection. Stay committed, and don't hesitate to seek support when needed.


P.S. Download the printable Self-help workbook below!


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